Part 1: International Women’s Day – What I learned in 2020

For many, 2020 was one of the most challenging collective experiences of our lifetimes. This International Women’s Day, we asked our firm’s fearless females what they learned from it – personally, professionally, and about the world at large. With this year’s theme being ‘I Choose to Challenge’, we recognize the vital role that celebrating women’s voices – and their achievements – plays in forging a better world, not just today, but every day. Here are the stories they wanted to share (you can also check out more in Part 2).

I think that the last year has proven without a doubt that women have a special connection to the environment, empathy and wisdom (a survival instinct?) that makes us invaluable leaders and agents of change in this vital time of crisis. We need to believe in ourselves and step up and step in to shape the future we deserve!
—I-Jin Chew, Managing Director, Singapore

2020 came packed with lessons. One of the most valuable being that we, as women, can achieve whatever we set our minds to. This year has shown us the power of women and their constant resilience despite the difficult challenges. Looking ahead, I have never felt more inspired by the women around me and around the world!
—Nour Hajjar, Landscape Architect and Planner, London

On a professional level, what I’ve learned is that the biggest benefit I can give my team is flexibility. I used to be such a stickler for being in the studio on time and what I realize working remotely is that the team is incredibly responsible and professional and that the end result is what matters – not how they get there, but that they get there. On a personal level, I’ve developed a greater appreciation for being home and being present with my husband and our dogs.  It’s an incredible gift to “stay put” and really appreciate those around you and to spend quality time at home.
—Margaret McMahon, Senior Vice President + Global Director, Wimberly Interiors

The transition from the office to the home at first meant non-stop work. No boundaries, no time to think during the commute hours. The space in-between work and home disappeared. It meant I was clearly faced with the importance of establishing discipline for life outside of that –  celebrating personal space and scheduling idle moments that allow me to regenerate energy and ideas, and to be focussed when it is needed.
—Chiara Calufetti-Lim, Associate Vice President and Architect, Singapore

Professionally, I learned how important it is to lead and act with emotional intelligence. In a crisis, leaders must tap into their intuition and think beyond the tactical, day-to-day work. Our team formed an incredible bond during 2020 because we took time to get to know each other on a more personal level. When you’re in a lifeboat situation with people you know, respect and trust – you can accomplish anything.

Personally, like thousands of others, I brought home a new puppy in 2020. In addition to the unconditional love, I learned how important a 20-minute walk in the park or around the neighborhood is to our wellbeing as humans. Fresh air, natural light, a casual chat with neighbors – immersing in the simple moments of life helps reset mind, energy and attitude. And it goes without saying, no phones allowed!
—Jennifer Ploszaj, Chief Marketing Officer, New York

There is so much that 2020 has taught us in every aspect of our lives – personally, professionally, and spiritually. For me, it was that each and every breathing moment is a gift.
—Monica Cuervo, Senior Vice President + Regional Managing Director of the Americas, Irvine

I learned that if you look deep, there were many silver linings to what was otherwise a terrible pandemic year. Such as:

• I truly enjoy my own company.
• Although there have been some rough times (my father passed away) I am a positive person and negativity has no place in my life.
• I can achieve anything I put my mind to.
• I truly appreciate my friends and family and enjoy them for exactly who they are because they provide amazing energy.
• People are genuinely, giving, kind and thoughtful.
• Be in the “NOW” don’t wait for “when we can travel, “when we can see people” etc. you are in control of your  own happiness – create it.
• Life is short, live it!

—Bernice Fielding, Project Manager, Honolulu

1. Starve my distractions. Feed my focus.
2. Be thankful. Count my blessings.
3. Intentionally express my love to my family members and friends whom I treasure much. 
4. Empathise with my clients.
5. Stay cautiously optimistic. Both positive and negative vibes are contagious. Spread the positive ones. It is good for my soul too.
6. Gain wisdom, knowledge and understanding. 

—Christine Chung, Director of Business Development, Singapore

In 2020 I learned that when it seems we are caught in the worst time or situations, being grateful and positive brings new and rewarding opportunities.
—Marcela Caycedo, Project Manager, Wimberly Interiors New York

I learned to be fearless about uncertainty and to cherish what I already have – something that came from experiencing a blackout in the water when I was learning to free dive. I lost 30 seconds of memory and consciousness, which made me reflect on appreciating every moment of life and living it to the fullest, especially in the pandemic situation.

I decided to learn freediving not because I am a strong swimmer, but because I used to be afraid and uncomfortable in deep water. I was looking to conquer my fear and also jump out of my comfort zone. After a few months’ training, water to me now is so friendly and I feel peace and relaxation when I am in it – just like a fish. Fearlessness is knowing there might be a lot of challenges in the way, but keep going. Conquer it and the process will bring you courage and make a difference.
—Jingjing Xiang, Project Planner, Singapore